Nelda Pike

In Loving Memory

Nelda Pike, 84 of Butler, Missouri passed away November 25, 2015 at Crown Care Center in Harrisonville, Missouri surrounded by her family. Funeral services will be 2:00 PM Sunday, November 29, 2015 at Mullinax Funeral Home (660-679-0009) in Butler with Pastor Ron Dunlap officiating. There is no visitation. Interment will follow in Oak Hill Cemetery in Butler. Contributions in memory of Nelda are suggested to the Representative Randy W. Pike Memorial Scholarship. Messages of condolence for the family may be left at

Nelda was born June 15, 1931 in Butler, daughter of Harvey and Cecilia (Steffen) Carroll. She was raised on a farm south of Butler, attended a rural elementary school and graduated from Butler High School. Nelda was crowned Fair Butler and Barn Warming Queen in 1949, and was a drum majorette and twirler, twirling fire as well as giving free lessons to younger aspiring twirlers. She was involved in many activities to include serving as a class officer as well as participating in many plays and clubs. While in high school, she met her future husband, Wesley Pike, and they were married in 1949 until his death in 2013.

Through the years, Nelda worked for Stanley Gray Motors and worked as a food demonstrator in several area wholesale clubs and grocery stores. In later years she took great pride in serving as a volunteer with the Bates County Memorial Hospital Auxiliary, where she enjoyed her role as a manager and buyer for the gift shop, in addition to many other hospital and auxiliary activities. She was honored for her service when the auxiliary members voted her the Auxiliary Volunteer of the Year award in 2006. In 1960 she joined the Butler Home Improvement Club and remained an active member until her passing.

Nelda was well known for her cooking and baking. She had the ability to adapt favorite recipes to sugar-free versions and create popular dishes, which no one can duplicate. She enjoyed crafts, often painting Wesley’s wood creations using folk art styling. Other activities she enjoyed included playing bingo and cards. Her family will always remember her ability as a seamstress. Nelda also loved spending time with her family.

Nelda was preceded in death by her parents, her husband Wesley, a brother, Daniel Carroll, and her son, Representative Randy W. Pike. She is survived by two daughters, Evonne Matthews and Janet Robinson; one daughter-in-law, Representative Patricia Pike; one son-in-law, Dr. Fran Matthews; six grandchildren: Dillion Pike (Channing), Dr. Michelle Pike, Patrick Matthews (Charlotte), Allison Allen (Bobby), Amanda Acree (Daniel), and Harley Robinson (friend Kenna Medlen); five great-granddaughters: Isabella Bo and Josephine Harper Pike, Elaina and Elsie Acree, and Evangeline Matthews; and one step great-grandson, Chandler Bradley.


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8 thoughts on “Nelda Pike

  1. Evonne, Janet, and families, I’m so sorry for your loss. I know how close you were. She was a great mother and a good friend.

  2. I am sending sympathy and prayers to Nelda’s family and friends. I saw her at Bingo often. Hugs to each from Ormiston QDL Australia.

  3. Evonne and Janet ~ so sorry to hear about the loss of your mother. I always enjoyed talking with her at the hospital when she volunteered. She was such a kind and giving person. I’ll be praying for you and your families.

  4. So sorry to hear of Nelda’s passing. Mom and her were in club many years together, and Dad grew up as neighbors.

  5. Condolences to Evonne, Janet, and the Pike family. Nelda was a longtime friend of our family. May she rest in peace. ~ Sherrie Diehl Shirky & the family of Kermit & Madeleine Diehl.

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